Do
Opposing Signs Really Clash?
I have been doing a lot
of research on opposing signs recently. You will be looking at opposing
signs in both Western Astrology and Chinese Horoscopes points of view.
Let me touch on Chinese
Horoscopes first. In Chinese Astrology, signs that are directly opposite of
each other are known as clashing signs. Since the olden days, parents always
believe that their children should never marry a spouse born under opposing
signs.
For example, if you are
born under the Tiger sign, you should never marry someone born under the
Monkey sign.
The clashing signs are
as follows:-
Rat clashes with Horse
Ox clashes with Goat
Tiger clashes with
Monkey
Rabbit clashes with
Rooster
Dragon clashes with Dog
Snake clashes with Pig
It is believed that
opposing signs or rather opposing animals will always end up in divorce.
Opposing signs are usually 6 years apart.
But what is the reason
behind opposing signs? Why are there opposing signs in the first place?
In Chinese Astrology,
each horoscope belongs to a certain element. Opposing signs are always
clashing elements. Let me explain in illustrate with an example...
Looking at the Horse
and Rat. The Horse's element is Fire, while the Rat's element is Water. Fire
and Water clash. This is the logic behind the clashing signs.
But is it really true
that people born under the Rat sign should never marry someone born under
the Horse sign?
Not true.
In a certain year,
there are so many people born. It is not true to say that clashing signs
should not marry. A more accurate way of looking at it is to look at the 8
characters. What are the 5 elements in each party’s 8 characters.
However, if you use the
clashing signs to forecast your luck cycle the results are always accurate.
Let me explain in detail...
Let's say you are born
in the year of Horse. Next year is the year of Rat, your opposing sign. You
can expect your luck cycle to be down in the Rat year. There will be a lot
of sudden changes and things that take you by surprise.
Therefore, it is not
accurate to use clashing signs to determine love compatibility. I have
friends whose parents are opposing signs. But they are still happily married
after so many years. I mixed around with people born under my opposite sign.
I get along with them well ,there was no clash.
Next, I will touch on
the opposing signs of the Western Astrology. I have read in many books that
opposing signs in Western Astrology are in fact the most compatible.
Why so? The books
stated that opposing signs can make up each others' differences.
After reading, I was
still not convinced. It seems that in the Western Astrology world, there
were no clashes. I decided to do some research into this area.
My discoveries showed
that there are indeed clashes in Western Astrology. Using myself as an
example, I realized that I could never see eye to eye or get along with
people born under my opposing sign.
I thought it was just a
coincidence after 1 or 2 cases. But I was quite convinced this is true after
more than 10 cases.
The Western Astrology opposing
signs are as follows:
Aries is opposite of Libra
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio
Gemini is opposite of Sagittarius
Cancer is opposite of Capricorn
Leo is opposite of Aquarius
Virgo is opposite of Pisces
The conclusion is this,
when determining love compatibility, from a Western Astrology point of view,
opposing signs really clash. Whereas the effect of the clash in Chinese
Horoscopes is quite small.