Why Bother Doing Compatibility Tests?

 

 

"Why bother doing compatibility tests? Just let nature take its course."
 

I received this response from a friend who did not believe in astrology. Of course, not everyone believes in this stuff. But I think you do. If not, you will not be reading this.
 

I am going to share with you a personal true story. You shall decide at the end of this article if it is a waste of time to do a compatibility test.
 

Let me start by sharing how I do a compatibility test. There are 4 parts to the section. If a couple can score well in all 4 sections, then it's very likely that they will have a lasting relationship.
 

In the first section, I will compare their Chinese 8 Characters. From the Chinese 8 Characters, I can determine whether it is a one-sided relationship, the chances of the relationship working out, as well as the challenging periods of the relationship. This is the most important section.
 

In another article, I will share with you exactly how you can tell if a relationship is one sided.
 

The second section is about Indian Numerology. I will see if the numbers are compatible. This is to see if their personalities clash. This part is not as important as the first section.
 

The next section is using Western Astrology to compare their Sun Signs and Moon Signs. This is also comparing their personalities.
 

Last but not least, the last section is about their past life relationship. From here, I am able to tell who owes who in past life and who is going to repay who in this life. This is also quite an important section.
 

OK, now you know how the test works. But why bother with all these? What benefit can you get out of it? Relax...you will discover more as you read on.
 

Let me share a personal true story. This is the very first time I am sharing this publicly.
 

Before I learnt about all these stuff, I was a total failure in relationships. I only got attached at age 20.When I was in school, all my "attempts to tackle girls" were failures.
 

Why? A reason maybe a lack of experience. Another reason may be because my luck pillar was unfavorable for relationships back then. But the most important reason is I did not know where to focus my time and energy. I kept choosing the wrong person.
 

Until one day...
 

I realized that there is one type of girl that I would stand a high chance. If I am able to find that type of girl, I will be able get attached easily. I do not need to waste time plotting strategy on how to "tackle" them. They will automatically get attracted to me.
 

There were 2 criteria to meet. Firstly, they must be born on a Water or Metal day and in a Fire Month.
 

Which means they must be born in Summer, between 6th May and 6th August or 7th October to 7th November. And they must be born on Water or Metal days.
 

In July 2000, I met this girl online who was born on 14th July 1983.It was a Water day in a Fire month. However, in terms of Indian Numerology, it is not so favorable. Because her secondary number is 6, which clashes with both my numbers.
 

But anyway, I was also attracted to her. So we got together. But one night, she told me that there was another guy in her school who was after her.
 

Oh no, a competitor!
 

I asked for his date of birth, so as to know what are his chances and what are my chances. If his Elements are more favorable, there is a higher chance that she will leave me and go for him.
 

He was born 17th February 1983.Wood day, wood month. I heaved a sigh of relief.
 

What happened was that he was interested in her since 1998.2 years passed and he has yet to succeed. I knew her for only 22 days and I succeeded.
 

Why? Let me explain...
 

A person born on a Water day in a Fire month is considered "weak" in terms of elements. Therefore she will need Metal to strengthen her Water. Metal serves 2 purposes here. First to strengthen Water and second to weaken the Fire.
 

I am born in a Metal month. Since I have plenty of Metal, which is favorable to her, she will automatically be attracted to me. Without me having to do much on my part. I met her in July, which is a Fire month. That makes her more in need of Metal. That explains why I succeeded in 22 days.
 

Let's look at my competitor's elements. He is a very strong Wood person. Wood day, Wood month. However, Wood produces Fire, which is her unfavorable element. It is quite difficult for him to succeed, unless he encounters a Water or Metal period in his luck pillars.
 

Let's look at this in his point of view...if he succeeds, it will be a one-sided relationship. He needs her more than she needs him. Let me explain...
 

He is attracted to her, because Wood produces Fire. She can help him weaken his Wood. As you probably know, too much of anything is bad. Whenever this guy encounters Wood in his luck pillars, his luck cycle will be quite down.
 

Another interesting thing to note is that this girl is an avid fan of Ekin Cheng, a Hong Kong singer and actor. Ekin Cheng is born on 4th October 1967.A Metal day in a Metal month. This is another sign that shows she needs Metal to enhance her luck cycle.
 

Therefore, any guy born between 7th August and 7th October stands a high chance of success when going after her. In fact, it's highly likely that he does not have to do much.
 

OK, back to my previous "failures". Why did I fail back then? I spend a lot of time and effort, but I was not able to succeed with those girls. Why?
 

It took me a few years to realize this. Those girls that "I failed with" were all born in Winter. One of them was Wood day, Water month. The other was Fire day, Water month.
 

Now, let me explain why all these "targets" were uninterested...
 

A person born on a Wood day during a Water month needs Fire. Think about this, how can a tree or plant grow in Winter? The plant will need sunlight and heat to grow.
 

That is my problem. I did not have Fire in my elements. I had a lot of Metal and Earth, but no Fire. There was no attraction. I spent a lot of time and effort, but kept getting rejected.
 

So what's the moral of the story?
 

By doing the compatibility test, you are able to tell your chances of succeeding. You will not waste time and effort on the wrong person. You will be able to know which competitors to fear and which of them you can easily triumph over.
 

I want to make a confession here. Once upon a time, I thought all these to be a waste of time. Until I personally experienced it. This is just one case. There are many other cases where a compatibility test saved me a lot of time, effort and disappointments.
 

One last thing before I end. There is no such thing as "chemistry" between two people. Everything boils down to whether each party has the element that the other party needs. It is as simple as that.
 

Know yourself and know your enemy well, you will win a thousand battles.