Many people have been quite curious about how I
do a love compatibility test. Some of them asked me about the
technical aspect of it. In this article, I will share with you how
you can determine where you stand in a relationship just basing on
you and your partner's birth dates.
From your birth dates, you can determine whether you are the upper
hand or lower hand, and when are the ups and downs of your
relationship. You will learn how long will your upper hand or lower
hand status last and how you could minimize the down times of your
relationship.
Recently, a client asked me this question "Where Do I Stand In This
Relationship?", which is the title of this article. I will use her
case as a case study to help you understand Chinese astrology and
love compatibility better. But in order to protect her, I will not
be using her real name. Before I begin, let me list out all their
information below...
Name: Ann
Date Of Birth: 12th September 1985
Hour Of Birth: Between 9am to 11am
Year Pillar: Wood Ox (Earth)
Month Pillar: Wood Rooster (Metal)
Day Pillar: Wood Tiger (Wood)
Hour Pillar: Earth Snake (Fire)
Current Luck Pillar: Fire (2004 to 2008)
Next Luck Pillar: Water (2009 to 2013)
Favorable Elements: Water, Wood
Unfavorable Elements: Metal, Earth, Fire
Name: Andy
Date Of Birth: 12th August 1983
Hour Of Birth: Shortly after midnight
Year Pillar: Water Pig (Water)
Month Pillar: Metal Monkey (Metal)
Day Pillar: Water Monkey (Metal)
Hour Pillar: Metal Rat (Water)
Current Luck Pillar: Fire (2004 to 2008)
Next Luck Pillar: Fire (2009 to 2013)
Favorable Elements: Earth, Fire, Wood
Unfavorable Elements: Metal, Water
From the information above, Ann went through 5 years of Fire from
2004 to 2008.Fire is Andy's favorable element. But since the element
of Water is extremely strong in Andy's pillars (due to Metal
strengthening Water), the Fire in his luck pillar (2004 to 2008) is
not enough.
Here is where Ann's Fire pillar comes into play. Ann's Fire pillar
helps to reduce the strong Water and Metal in Andy's pillars. From
both their luck pillars, Andy needs Ann's Fire more than Ann needs
Andy's Fire (Both of them went through a Fire pillar from 2004 to
2008).This explains why Ann has the upper hand from 2004 to 2008,as
Andy needs her more than she needs him.
Looking at the next luck pillars, Ann's next luck pillar is Water,
which is from 2009 to 2013.Andy's next luck pillar is still Fire.
Ann's Water luck pillar is not favorable to Andy. Andy needs Fire
instead of Water. This means than Andy will start losing interest in
Ann from 2009 onwards.
How about Ann? Will she also start losing interest in Andy? The
answer is yes. Water can already be found in her luck pillar. She no
longer needs the Water in Andy's pillars. She will be
self-sufficient in terms of the Water element. So what's the
conclusion here?
My analysis is that the relationship might end off after Ann's 24th
birthday in 2009.Both parties will part on a good note, as both will
start drifting away from each other. But if Ann really wants the
relationship to go on, is there anything she can do? The answer is
yes.
As long as she is able to increase the effect of Fire during their
outings, she will still stand a chance of making the relationship go
on. My suggestion will be to wear more Fire colors like Red, Orange
or Purple. To go for movies (Fire activity) or BBQ. Any activities
related to light or fire is highly encouraged. Going for a suntan on
the beach is also a good way to increase the effect of Fire.
Right now, it is all in Ann's hands what she wants for this
relationship. I hope you have enjoyed this.
