The case study that you are about to see is a
super compatible couple. They went through a lot to be together.
Theirs was an inter-racial marriage, which was not allowed in the
olden days. However, they overcame the odds and ended up together.
This time, instead of looking at the compatibility aspect, you will
be looking at who is dominating the relationship. This is one of the
few cases where a weaker planet dominates a stronger planet. Their
information is as follows:
Husband's Date Of Birth:23rd October 1942
Wife's Date Of Birth:30th September 1942
Husband's Primary Number:2+3=5 (Mercury)
Husband's Secondary Number:2+3+10+1+9+4+2=31,3+1=4 (Uranus)
Wife's Primary Number:3+0=3 (Jupiter)
Wife's Secondary Number:30+9+1+9+4+2=55,5+5=10,1+0=1 (Sun)
From the above, you can see that husband's combination is 5 and
4,Mercury and Uranus, which is a very powerful and strong
combination. Both Mercury and Uranus have domineering personalities.
The wife's combination is 3 and 1,Jupiter and Sun. Between the 2
planets, Jupiter is less domineering as compared to Mercury.
At a glance, you will probably say that the husband is the one
dominating the relationship. After all, his combination of Mercury
and Uranus is stronger than his wife's combination of Sun and
Jupiter. Right? Wrong. In this relationship, the wife is the
dominating force. I was quite surprised to realize this, because
Mercury personalities are very domineering and in control,whereas
Jupiter is more submissive and easygoing.
So what is the problem here?
There is one thing which wasn't taken into consideration. Their
Chinese 8 characters. Now, you will take a look at their Chinese 8
characters.
Husband's Chinese 8 characters:
Year Pillar: (Yang) Water Horse
Month Pillar: (Yang) Metal Dog
Day Pillar: (Yin) Earth Rooster
Hour Pillar: Unknown
Wife's Chinese 8 characters:
Year Pillar: (Yang) Water Horse
Month Pillar: (Yin) Earth Rooster
Day Pillar: (Yang) Fire Dog
Hour Pillar: Unknown
Do you see the missing piece of the puzzle here? Yes, it is the
influence of the Day pillar. The wife was born under the influence
of a Yang pillar while the husband was born under the influence of
an Yin pillar. So you next question might be, what is Yin and Yang
and what are their differences?
Yin represents the female energy while Yang represents the male
energy. People born on Yin days tend to be more submissive and
introverted, while those born on Yang days tend to be more
aggressive and extroverted.
The morale of the story is that you need to check out the Yin and
Yang elements of the day pillar besides checking the planets. Men,
if you don't want to be dominated, don't marry a wife with a Yang
element day pillar. Women, if you want to dominate your husband,
marry someone with an Yin element day pillar.
